Rama’s Favorite: Laxman or Hanuman?

Rama, the incarnation of Lord Vishnu, is surrounded by a galaxy of devotees, each playing a unique and irreplaceable role in His life. Just as it is impossible to choose between air and the nose for breathing, it is challenging to favor one over another, as all have their indispensable roles. Let us explore the distinctive bond between Rama and His dear brothers—Laxman and Hanuman—and why each holds an elevated place in the story of Ramayana.

The Unique Roles

Each character in Rama's life has a distinctive place, much like the different functions of human organs. Sita Devi, Rama's better half, is the nadhi or vital connection; Lakshman, the younger brother, is like the shadow to Rama’s body; and Hanuman is the greatest devotee and a symbol of unwavering faith. While Sita cannot take Lakshman’s place and vice versa, the lesson in Santana Dharma is clear: everyone has their dharma (duty) to perform, and no one’s dharma is more valuable than another's. Just as the nose and air are complementary, so are Sita, Lakshman, and Hanuman essential to the complete life of Rama.

Emphasis on Brotherhood

Delving into the Ramayana, we find several passages that highlight the unique relationship between Rama and Lakshman. One such passage is a beautiful ode to brotherhood:

Desa dese kalatraani, de?e dese cha
Bandhavah tatra tu desam na pa?yāmi yatra
Bhrātā sahodarah

This verse conveys the sentiment that Rama does not see any kingdom (desa) without his brother Lakshmana. It also reinforces the brotherly bond, where Rama has no doubt that his relationship with Lakshmana transcends all others.

In another section of the Ramayana, Rama’s love for Lakshmana is depicted:

Nahi yuddhena me kāryam, naiva prā?ai? nihatam
Dru??vā Lak?ma?am rājana cā?cām.

This verse expresses how Rama cannot engage in battle without Lakshmana, nor can He bear the sight of Lakshmana in harm's way. This profound love and concern for his brother showcase the depth of Rama’s bond with Lakshmana.

Challenges and Loyalty

During the trials and tribulations, one's true character and loyalty are tested. In the case of Sita and Hanuman, their actions are significant but also complex. Sita, though deserving of respect and understanding, had a passive-aggressive response after being wronged. However, she was also a devoted wife and sister-in-law. On the other hand, Hanuman, while immensely loyal, had another set of duties and sacrifices hemade for the greater good. For instance, even during Rama's exile, Hanuman staunchly stayed by Rama’s side, never questioning or seeking to impose his will.

Lakshmana stands apart in his unwavering loyalty. Even when Rama wanted to end His avatar and leave Ayodhya, Lakshmana was steadfast in his resolve. When driving Sita into exile, Lakshmana offered to protect her, but he deferred to Rama, showing deep respect and loyalty.

Conclusion

While both Lakshman and Hanuman are beloved by Rama, the intensity of their bond differs. Rama's love for Hanuman was selfless and unconditional, but the commitment and loyalty of Lakshmana fortified the brotherly bond. Both brothers, together with Hanuman, make the story of Rama's life more complete. Rama’s sensitivity and keen understanding of the emotions of others ensured that He reciprocated their love and devotion with equal measures.

Ultimately, it is the harmony and interdependence of these relationships that culminate in the epic tale of the Ramayana, teaching us that everyone’s role, though unique, is equally significant in the grand tapestry of life.